It is well known that men and women use a wide variety of gestures while paying court to somebody. Most gestures are used unknowingly. The success of the relationship depends on your ability to give certain signals and perceive the ones that are being sent to you.

Raised eyebrows. When we see a person that we consider attractive, we begin raising and lowering our eyebrows. If the person also feels drawn to you, his eyebrows will also start going up and down. This gesture lasts only 1/5 of a second but it takes place all the time, with people of both sexes and all ages. This "eye making" can be easily left unnoticed, but if you do notice it, you will certainly be given 100% of the person's attention.
Slightlyopened lips.If a person likes you, his or her lips automatically open the moment your eyes meet.

Standing at attention. If a man is standing straight, with his shoulders squared and with his belt tightened, he's trying to show himself in all his beauty. If he is leaning forward to hear what the woman is saying, it is even better.
Adjusting the clothes. If a man is adjusting his tie, he really hopes that you will notice it. He may also sleek his hair, pull down his jacket, see if his lapels are in the right place. When a man is playing with the buttons of his jacket he's probably nervous. Using this gesture he's also trying to demonstrate his subconscious wish to get undressed for you. The next stage is when he takes his jacket off and places his arms on his hips. If he has used all these gestures, it means he's already imagining your shoes under his bed.
Playing with the hair. In order to show her sympathy towards a man, a woman makes a movement with her head to get her hair off her face. She may also move it aside with her hand. She tries to send the same signal by licking her lips. By the way, men also like sprucing up while talking to a woman. At the same time a woman will never miss a chance to count the number of times a man sleeks or bristles up his hair during the conversation.

Voyeurism. A man is openly trying to show that he's examining the woman's body, by casting some looks at its most beautiful parts. Ladies, you shouldn't be flattered, he automatically scanned your figure the first second he saw you. All he wants to do now is to let you know that he considers you as his sexual partner.
Crossing the legs. If the toes of a person's shoes are pointed at you, he or she is certainly interested in you. If you point your knee towards the person you're interested in, you'll demonstrate that you're ready for a closer relationship. One of the most captivating poses is when a woman is sitting with her legs crossed under herself and her knees are exposed to the person she's talking to. It means she's wants a man to take more decisive steps.

Playing around with cylindrical objects. A man, as well as a woman, when excited, will definitely find a glass or even a fork to stroke it or to touch it with his fingers. Cylindrical objects remind men of the woman's breasts, and the women of the man's genitals. Woman's wrist has always been considered one of the erogenous zones. When a woman is interested in a man she'll try to keep her palms and her wrists in the man's sight.
Touching the face. If a person is interested in you, he'll keep touching his chin, his ears and his cheeks. It means that he or she is subconsciously fixing the lies. This is a combination of nervous and auto erotic actions. When we're interested in somebody, our lips and the lower part of the face become very sensitive to stimulation. If you're smoking, you'll begin inhaling more often. If you're drinking something, you'll begin taking more sips. You enjoy touching your lips, and what is more, you let the other person know that a kiss is not far off.

The leading hand. It is a good sign if a man is holding you by the elbow or by the shoulder. In the first place, it is a good way to lead you through the crowd. Secondly, this way he can be sure that you don't get lost. Thirdly, this will frighten away the other men: after all, you already have one by your side. Fourthly , this lets him accidentally touch you … All in all, it's a good gesture.

He's offering you his sweater or his coat. Few men would be very glad that a woman came back from a date wearing somebody else's jacket, even if otherwise she would have died from cold. Men offer their jackets or sweaters to women because it's a defensive, sexual and proprietorial gesture. He's saying "What is mine, is also yours " (and otherwise ). At first the jacket smells of him, and then it smells of you. Eventually, by giving it to you, he'll have one more cause to appear on the scene again, at least to get back what belongs to him.

7 Ways to Make Him Ache for You

You love your guy. He loves you. But do you wonder if he still wants you like he did when your romance was new? After you pull out a bunch of these tricks, he sure as hell will. 

Sure, you want adoration, respect and the occasional sparkly treat from your man, but more than anything, you want to feel like he's still got the hots for you. Well, here's good news: Contrary to the widely held belief that men lose interest over time, experts now know that guys are actually hardwired for long-term lusting.

"It's absolutely true, but it's not without conditions," says Jeffrey Bernstein, Ph.D., author of Why Can't You Read My Mind? "You have to make a strategic effort to trigger that craving in him once you're in a relationship because the spark in your bond won't last if you neglect it." For that reason, Cosmo has discovered the seven key make-him-ache-for-you strategies that specifically jump-start your guy's desire. Be warned: Once you use them, he'll be sticking to you like white on rice.

1. Utter the One Word That Drives Him Nuts

As lovey-dovey as pet names make him feel, they still don't compare to the electrifying rush your man gets when his name crosses your lips. "Just hearing it is an aphrodisiac," says body-language expert Eve Marx, author of Read My Hips. "It ratchets up his desire because the message you send is 'It's you I'm thinking about and no one else.' And men need to hear that -- it's tied to their primal urge to beat out all the competition."

However, just blurting out his moniker as often as possible isn't going to do it for him. You need to make it count. For instance, when you're feeling sexy in a public setting, like in a dark bar, drop it into conversation in surprising spots and pause for a beat or two: "And then...Jeremy...I slammed the door behind me."

Or try another trick when he's putting the moves on you: Just kind of coo his name to draw his focus entirely on to you. "When Jake and I are getting it on, sometimes it feels like he's lost in his own head," says Sandrine, 26.* "But when I moan his name, everything feels like it gets more intense between us, like it brings him into the moment."

*Names have been changed.

2. Reach into His Pocket for the Keys

Well, more than just the keys. The lesson is this: "Never underestimate the power of an unexpected touch," says David Niven, Ph.D., author of The 100 Simple Secrets of Great Relationships. "Just by stimulating his nerve endings when he's not prepared for it, you create a positive physical connection that leaves your man wanting more." Even better, your guy subconsciously gets hooked on those mini-moments of excitement and craves them when you're not around.

From now on, be on the lookout for opportune moments to touch him "accidentally." For example, don't ask him for his keys...glide your hand into his pocket and slowly take them out. Don't ask him to pass the salt...reach across him, letting your breasts rub against his arm. Don't walk past him in a crowded bar...press your rear into his gear. According to Tricia, 25, these sneak attacks work like a charm. "If I've been really touchy-feely with Rob, the next morning, he'll be really snuggly," she says. "It's like he wants to be closer to me."

3. Keep Him Out of the Loop

The funny thing about men is that telling them less about your life makes them long for you more. So as much as you might want to share the minutiae of your bitchy workplace or your take on the latest Grey's Anatomy plot twist, hold back. "The hard truth is that from his end, that information is overwhelming and boring," explains Douglas Weiss, Ph.D., author of The 7 Love Agreements. "Men don't have the capacity to endure great amounts of detail. That's one reason why they don't give you the play-by-play of their lives."

Edit your small talk and you'll make a discovery: The less you tell him, the more interested he'll become in your day-to-day, as Susan, 27, can attest. "If I'm vague or dismissive about what I've been up to -- like 'Oh, nothing. The usual. Work. Out with the girls' -- Dave becomes eager to hear the story," she says. "And when he's the instigator, he listens more closely."

So to hook him in, when you're chatting, give him the conclusion of the conversation first. For instance, "I got the job" or "I saw your buddy Mark," and then stop and wait. You've gotten his attention, now let him draw out the details he's dying to know from you.

4. Make Small Changes for Big Results

Caroline, 26, had gotten haircuts in the past that her guy hadn't noticed at all, but when she had her brunette crown streaked red, he was all over her. "Jake couldn't stop touching me -- he couldn't believe he was fooling around with a redhead," she says. The reason her new do drove him nuts: "Men register eye-catching changes to your appearance, and it draws them to you," says Lori Buckley, Psy.D. "Adding novelty will keep his desire for you strong."

There's a catch though: If you want to snag his immediate interest, the change has to be guy-visible. "To activate his desire, it has to be a departure from your everyday look," says David Buss, Ph.D., author of The Evolution of Desire. Maybe take a break from your jeans routine and strut around in a miniskirt. Wear a noticeably higher heel. Or ditch your bra for a day and put a little extra bounce in your step.

5. Compliment Him the Right Way

Just because men don't fish for flattery (when was the last time you heard a guy ask, "Honey, do my pecs look small in this shirt?") doesn't mean they don't love ego stroking. "More than anything, men desire the feeling of being desired," says Bernstein. "When a man hears praise from his partner, it reinforces that she's attracted to him, which further intensifies his feelings for her."

But there's a trick to buttering up your guy right. You see, men are super sensitive to gushing. It makes them want to gag and run far away. So when you give him props, stick to this tip: The more obscure and exclusive the praise to him, the more genuine it feels. That's why Molly, 31, casually praises her guy's kitchen-cleaning prowess. "Tom is anal about wiping down the counters, so whenever I go to cook and they're clean, I say how much I love it." He may dismiss your flattery with a grunt, but deep down, he's loving every second of it.

6. Give Him a Sensory Flashback

Think about when you first fell for your guy. What reminds you both of that time (aside from the conniption fit you had every time the phone rang)? Figure it out and you've found the secret to conjuring up that new-love rush. "When he experiences something that he associates with falling in love with you, those intense, sensual memories trigger a positive physical reaction and generate instant longing," says Bernstein.

Case in point: "The smell of sunscreen and chlorine makes me crave my wife," says Peter, 28. "It takes me back to when we were in high school and she worked summers as a lifeguard at a pool. Smelling that scent gives me the jolt all over again." To get your guy in the moment, revive an old brand of perfume, visit a favorite place from your shared past or reinstate an early dating ritual. Oftentimes, you won't even need to say anything, according to Bernstein. These sensory connections are so strong that he'll be transported back instantly.

7. Check Out His Competition

Lust works in bizarre ways. Get this: If you want to renew your man's passion for you, slyly capture the eye of another guy. "Men do become more attentive and turned on by their partners when they see them being desired by other men," says Buss. Aimee, 27, knows all about this surprising strategy: "When I get dressed up and guys at the bar check me out, I know Will's thinking, Yeah, that's right. She's with me, suckers," she says. "And he's definitely clingier when he can smell the competition."

To stoke your guy's interest, trail a yummy waiter with your gaze or flash a flirty smile at one of his friends when you know he's watching you. And it never hurts to make an extra bit of effort with your appearance when you know you'll be in a situation where other men will admire you. Just the possibility of other guys eying you all night will definitely make him appreciate that he's the lucky dog who gets to take you home.

Just The Facts: SAFER SEX IS HOTTER SEX!

The use of condoms can be essential to a happy sex life, since condoms are the only way to ensure that you can reduce the risks of disease and pregnancy while fully enjoying your sexual experience.

Condoms are an incredible invention. They prevent disease and pregnancy and, if you're willing to give them a chance, they can be fun! Several hundred years ago, people made condoms out of pigs' bladders, but today we can buy condoms that science and technology have almost perfected for our safety and enjoyment.

An important tip: When condoms fail, it is almost always because they've not been used properly.
So here are the top ten tips for using condoms:

Purchase them! Get a supply of the condoms that suit you best:

Use latex condoms. Brands such as Lifestyle, Trojan, Kimono, or Protex are usually reliable. Natural skin condoms, like lambskin, feel good, but do not prevent disease. If you or your partners are allergic to latex (it might give you a rash or irritation) or it isn't compatible with a lubricant or product you are using, try polyurethane condoms like Avanti.

You may find you want to use a special condom to suit your special needs:

From The Ultimate Sex Diet by Kerry McCloskey

Crouching Tiger, Aroused Dragon

Both partners will quickly realize why the Crouching Tiger has great pleasure and orgasm potential. . In this position, the woman does a sexy squat above the man -- in a catcher's position. This is the perfect chance for her to use her PC muscles to "catch" his member and clench him tight. The woman can then support herself by putting her hands anywhere on his body for support and then move herself up and down. It also allows the woman to have better control of the depth and pace of the penetration. She can even vary it to tease her partner a little and make sex more interesting. The up and down motion may create different sensations than the regular woman-on-top position in which she is lying down in a straddle, moving back and forth. Of course, she will be in better control of her orgasm. If she allows a deep penetration, she can stimulate her G-spot more often. More shallow penetration will touch the edge of the vaginal opening, which is still a pleasurable sensation. Additionally, if the woman leans back, her clitoris can be stimulated. In terms of muscle tone, this position will work her inner thigh and calf muscles. Meanwhile, to get a better view, the man should lift his head and contract his stomach muscles. Maintaining this position as long as possible will give his abdomen a hard workout. He should feel the tension and clench tighter as it starts to burn. He can even reach forward and caress his partner's body and add to everyone's pleasure.

Down Doggy! Good Doggy!

This erotic, animalistic position is very similar to the usual doggy style, with a few slight changes. After the man enters from behind, as in the regular doggy position, the woman leans down and supports her weight on her elbows, rather than staying on all fours, while the man lifts one bent leg forward, rather than kneeling on both knees. This is highly erotic for the woman because it places direct pressure on her G-spot, which is on the anterior (tummy side) vaginal wall, intensifying her climax. The woman can also maneuver the penetration by slightly arching her back or raising herself a bit. Meanwhile, the man will feel extraordinary sensations in his private parts. This position is also appealing for the change of pace involved in not always looking at each other's face. The woman will feel the tension in her triceps while making love in this position and the man will work his thighs when his leg stays raised. He should switch legs halfway through to hit the G-spot from a different angle.

Humpty Bumpty

In this position, the man is sitting up while the woman is sitting on him with her legs raised in the air in a straddle. She holds onto his neck with her hands while he maneuvers her back and forth. This will work the woman's arms, stomach and legs. The man will tone his arms while moving the woman's body, and will strengthen his legs from the support he is providing to his partner.

Wheelbarrow of Fun

The woman lies on her stomach on the bed with her legs slightly open and her knees slightly off the edge of the bed. The man stands behind her at the end of her bed and lifts her legs up toward him, until he is able to enter from behind. The woman then bends her legs and wraps them around him, locking her feet together at the ankles, while the man holds her with his hands and rests her on his thighs. This will tone the triceps and lower back. You can also try this on the floor. If you're really talented, you can try walking around the room while in this position and think back to your days in summer camp during color war.

Fatal Attracting

This position is reminiscent of the scene in the move Fatal Attraction, when Glenn Close is sitting on the counter while she and Michael Douglas are engaged in wild sex. Doing it spread-eagle on the table while your man faces you to thrust from the front creates mega heat in a minimal amount of time. "He's sure to come quickly because he plunges deep," says Anne Hooper, author of The Great Sex Guide. "Plus, men get off on the novelty of doing it somewhere new to them, [since] out of the bedroom equals no-holds-barred.

Let's Get Crazy

This position is a great workout for the woman's stomach and buttocks. While lying on her back, the woman extends her legs straight in the air, slightly spread, with her rear lifted off the ground. The man bends down in a slight squat to enter her, working his quads, and when using his arms for support, he works his triceps.

T-Rific!

The woman lies on her side, while the man kneels and straddles her bottom leg perpendicularly (i.e., at a right angle to her, thus forming a terrific "T") and then enters her. Her top leg remains extended upward, gently supported by the man. When done correctly, this can be a great position for deep penetration, while exposing the clitoris for maximum stimulation. This double stimulation is very gratifying and can often lead to the big "O" very quickly.

You already know sex is fun, and it's good for your health, but did you also know sex can make you wealthy?

According to a financial adviser at Saving Advice. com, the best financial advice he ever got came from a call girl who said, quote, "Don't marry her if she isn't great in bed.

Well, the guy eventually did marry a woman who was great in bed – and he says his sexually-healthy marriage actually makes him wealthier.

Here's how:
1.) Great sex reduces entertainment costs. If you had the option of choosing between hot sex and, well, anything else, you'd be crazy not to take the sex... and that will save you money.

2.) Great sex keeps you out of the mall. We go to malls to buy things that make us temporarily happy. But if you're getting awesome sex, you're already happy… so you won't go to the mall and blow your dough on stuff you don't need.

3.) Great sex means you don't go to restaurants as much. Why spend hours at a restaurant when you can have a quick dinner at home and jump in the sack with your significant other?

4.) Great sex keeps you organized. You'll stop procrastinating and organize your life so you can get down to sexual activities as quickly as possible.

5.) Great sex makes you healthier. One survey found that sexually active people take less sick days because they're healthier. That means you'll make more money for the days you don't miss – and you'll have lower health insurance premiums.

 6.) Great sex makes vacations less expensive. If you're having good sex, you'll save money by spending more time in the hotel room instead of jumping from tourist trap to tourist trap.

7.) Great sex means you won't cheat on your partner. Extramarital affairs cost a lot of money – but if you're having awesome sex with your partner, you won't need to look for it anywhere else.

8.) Great sex means you'll stay married. A good sex life is usually indicative of a good marriage... and that means you won't have to go through the costly process of getting divorced.

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