From The Ultimate Sex Diet by Kerry McCloskey

Crouching Tiger, Aroused Dragon

Both partners will quickly realize why the Crouching Tiger has great pleasure and orgasm potential. . In this position, the woman does a sexy squat above the man -- in a catcher's position. This is the perfect chance for her to use her PC muscles to "catch" his member and clench him tight. The woman can then support herself by putting her hands anywhere on his body for support and then move herself up and down. It also allows the woman to have better control of the depth and pace of the penetration. She can even vary it to tease her partner a little and make sex more interesting. The up and down motion may create different sensations than the regular woman-on-top position in which she is lying down in a straddle, moving back and forth. Of course, she will be in better control of her orgasm. If she allows a deep penetration, she can stimulate her G-spot more often. More shallow penetration will touch the edge of the vaginal opening, which is still a pleasurable sensation. Additionally, if the woman leans back, her clitoris can be stimulated. In terms of muscle tone, this position will work her inner thigh and calf muscles. Meanwhile, to get a better view, the man should lift his head and contract his stomach muscles. Maintaining this position as long as possible will give his abdomen a hard workout. He should feel the tension and clench tighter as it starts to burn. He can even reach forward and caress his partner's body and add to everyone's pleasure.

Down Doggy! Good Doggy!

This erotic, animalistic position is very similar to the usual doggy style, with a few slight changes. After the man enters from behind, as in the regular doggy position, the woman leans down and supports her weight on her elbows, rather than staying on all fours, while the man lifts one bent leg forward, rather than kneeling on both knees. This is highly erotic for the woman because it places direct pressure on her G-spot, which is on the anterior (tummy side) vaginal wall, intensifying her climax. The woman can also maneuver the penetration by slightly arching her back or raising herself a bit. Meanwhile, the man will feel extraordinary sensations in his private parts. This position is also appealing for the change of pace involved in not always looking at each other's face. The woman will feel the tension in her triceps while making love in this position and the man will work his thighs when his leg stays raised. He should switch legs halfway through to hit the G-spot from a different angle.

Humpty Bumpty

In this position, the man is sitting up while the woman is sitting on him with her legs raised in the air in a straddle. She holds onto his neck with her hands while he maneuvers her back and forth. This will work the woman's arms, stomach and legs. The man will tone his arms while moving the woman's body, and will strengthen his legs from the support he is providing to his partner.

Wheelbarrow of Fun

The woman lies on her stomach on the bed with her legs slightly open and her knees slightly off the edge of the bed. The man stands behind her at the end of her bed and lifts her legs up toward him, until he is able to enter from behind. The woman then bends her legs and wraps them around him, locking her feet together at the ankles, while the man holds her with his hands and rests her on his thighs. This will tone the triceps and lower back. You can also try this on the floor. If you're really talented, you can try walking around the room while in this position and think back to your days in summer camp during color war.

Fatal Attracting

This position is reminiscent of the scene in the move Fatal Attraction, when Glenn Close is sitting on the counter while she and Michael Douglas are engaged in wild sex. Doing it spread-eagle on the table while your man faces you to thrust from the front creates mega heat in a minimal amount of time. "He's sure to come quickly because he plunges deep," says Anne Hooper, author of The Great Sex Guide. "Plus, men get off on the novelty of doing it somewhere new to them, [since] out of the bedroom equals no-holds-barred.

Let's Get Crazy

This position is a great workout for the woman's stomach and buttocks. While lying on her back, the woman extends her legs straight in the air, slightly spread, with her rear lifted off the ground. The man bends down in a slight squat to enter her, working his quads, and when using his arms for support, he works his triceps.

T-Rific!

The woman lies on her side, while the man kneels and straddles her bottom leg perpendicularly (i.e., at a right angle to her, thus forming a terrific "T") and then enters her. Her top leg remains extended upward, gently supported by the man. When done correctly, this can be a great position for deep penetration, while exposing the clitoris for maximum stimulation. This double stimulation is very gratifying and can often lead to the big "O" very quickly.

You already know sex is fun, and it's good for your health, but did you also know sex can make you wealthy?

According to a financial adviser at Saving Advice. com, the best financial advice he ever got came from a call girl who said, quote, "Don't marry her if she isn't great in bed.

Well, the guy eventually did marry a woman who was great in bed – and he says his sexually-healthy marriage actually makes him wealthier.

Here's how:
1.) Great sex reduces entertainment costs. If you had the option of choosing between hot sex and, well, anything else, you'd be crazy not to take the sex... and that will save you money.

2.) Great sex keeps you out of the mall. We go to malls to buy things that make us temporarily happy. But if you're getting awesome sex, you're already happy… so you won't go to the mall and blow your dough on stuff you don't need.

3.) Great sex means you don't go to restaurants as much. Why spend hours at a restaurant when you can have a quick dinner at home and jump in the sack with your significant other?

4.) Great sex keeps you organized. You'll stop procrastinating and organize your life so you can get down to sexual activities as quickly as possible.

5.) Great sex makes you healthier. One survey found that sexually active people take less sick days because they're healthier. That means you'll make more money for the days you don't miss – and you'll have lower health insurance premiums.

 6.) Great sex makes vacations less expensive. If you're having good sex, you'll save money by spending more time in the hotel room instead of jumping from tourist trap to tourist trap.

7.) Great sex means you won't cheat on your partner. Extramarital affairs cost a lot of money – but if you're having awesome sex with your partner, you won't need to look for it anywhere else.

8.) Great sex means you'll stay married. A good sex life is usually indicative of a good marriage... and that means you won't have to go through the costly process of getting divorced.

So now that you know what saves money and raises awareness! does the one who posted this bulletin, have all the goods for "great" sex!!! Find that out and Re-Post this as: CAN SEX MAKE YOU WEALTHY?

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Just because you're tired, bloated or having a horrendous fat day (we've all been there), that doesn't mean it has to be a no-sex night!

You're having a fat day!

What you want: To hide bulges, keep yourself semicovered — and ideally keep his hands far from your tummy and other no-go zones.

Intimate instructions: There are alternatives to keeping your T-shirt on and settling for (yawn) missionary. Rear-entry positions are the most flattering. Kneel facing away from him, lean down to rest your weight on your forearms (read: tummy hidden) and push your bottom tantalizingly high in the air in his direction. Not only does it give him a visual treat, the angle and position makes your waist look tiny and your thighs slim and taut — without you having to launch into that whiny "Don't look at me!" girly stuff. Put his hands on your hips to hold you steady while he thrusts, and you've also solved the wandering hands problem.

Sneaky tricks: If he wants the lights on, place glass-encased candles on the floor or simply plunk the bedside light down there. Lighting from below is far more flattering. Or play a game using a flashlight. Make the room as black as possible so there's complete darkness, then use the flashlight to highlight favorite parts of each other's body. It's complimentary, plus, because only one section at a time is being lit, it's less intrusive. Another good fat-day trick: Blindfold him and let it all hang out.

A new angle: If you do opt for missionary, make a pudgy upper midriff look sexier by stretching your arms up over your head and grabbing onto the bedposts or by placing them flat on the wall behind the bed. Better still, get him to pin you there. It's supersexy for him — he's in control and you're completely submissive. Plus, it works a treat to make tummies look flat and breasts appear perky!




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Common Male Foreplay Blunders
By The Sex Coach at sexyadsnews.com

Met your fair share of sexual rejection lately? Has your lady seemed less than satisfied? Your Sex Coach has gathered up some common foreplay blunders men make and gives you tips for turning them around.

1. Minimalist Foreplay
It's legendary: most women like more foreplay than men do. Men focus in on breasts, asses, and genitals and like to hurry the action along, claiming grazing rights on the woman's body as quickly as possible.

What you can do: Naturally, you can take more time. Slow down. Make a deliberate effort to warm up a woman's whole body before zeroing in on her boobs. She'll be much happier, and you may learn that you like extended foreplay yourself once you experiment with it.

Another trick is to invent foreplay experiences you'd like. Foreplay is not just physical arousal; it's also mental arousal. Yours and hers. Thus, it includes such pleasures as soaking in the hot tub, sensuous massages, swimming nude, a romantic walk in the woods, erotic conversation, dressing to tease, cybersex, etc. Pull out the stops.

Women learned long ago the art of the tease, of building erotic suspense, of making men wait for dessert. Men generally haven't been taught this skill, and yet it's a dynamite strategy. Women expect men to be a sexual pushover, always ready to go, and when he applies the brakes, she's no longer in control.

2. Mechanical Foreplay
Men are often criticized for foreplay techniques that resemble paint-by-numbers routines. Men adore women's bodies but often forget to pay attention to their minds. The end result is that women feel pawed and pummeled. This is what most women mean when they say they feel they're being treated as sex objects.

What you can do: Touch a woman's heart and soul by talking to her. Really. A man who can talk to a woman about anything when her nipples are showing (not just about how much he wants to have sex, which is assumed) gets high marks. Meanwhile, a man who knows a woman well enough to arouse her imagination with things she especially likes to hear can ignite flames of passion like a blowtorch. More than most men, most women speak an emotional language. When a woman complains about mechanical lovemaking, it usually means she wants to see more emotion from her man. She wants to break through the tough macho exterior and find the sensitive lover (yet not a wimp) inside.

3. Insensitive Foreplay
For years pretty women have endured the unwanted attention of men obsessed with carnal satisfaction. Their come-ons have been made ugly by their insensitivity. I think of insensitivity here as putting your own sexual agenda far ahead of the feelings or wishes of the person you want to seduce. She has a headache, but you don't care. She wants to watch her favorite TV show, but you want a blowjob instead. Anytime she says something, no matter how innocent, you put a sexual spin on it. Flopping her onto the bed is more important than cleaning yourself up or creating a romantic atmosphere.

What you can do: Men often don't catch on to this one until it's too late and the woman they love has gone. However, the best thing you can do is ask your partner how you can be a better lover. Listen to her without arguing. You may not like what she says, but you'll learn what she wants. For example, she may tell you that your breath is awful and your slobbery kisses disgust her. That's not fun to hear, but her honesty gives you a chance to improve yourself. Honest communication about what you like and dislike sexually is a golden key for creating what you both like.

4. Manipulative Foreplay
Manipulative foreplay is sexual harassment, which, in this context, is when a guy uses intimidation, mental cruelty, or deception to meet his sexual agenda. He tricks, drugs, threatens, or overpowers a woman into putting out for him.

What you can do: Realize that when you manipulate a woman for sex, your prize is false glory. You know she didn't go to bed with you because she likes you or thinks you're awesome. You tricked her. You also tricked yourself because sex under phony or coercive pretenses is nowhere near as juicy and satisfying as the real deal. It's like winning a rigged sporting event. Yeah, you won, but you know you had to cheat to do it. Sex by manipulation usually isn't about sex anyway. It's more of a desperate attempt to feel good by conquering or possessing someone. It would be better to find another way to feel good. You'll see why as soon as you enjoy a sexual relationship in a more honest way.

5. Nasty Foreplay
Many men love dirty, in-your-face sex play and often have a horrible time finding women who are truly happy providing it. Men often blunder badly trying to get their honey to talk nasty or show their booty in a halfway exciting fashion.

What you can do: This would be a good time to discuss different sex styles with your honey. Explain to her that you occasionally want sleazy sex. Tell her specifically what you want her to say and do. Spare her from guessing. She'll most likely be willing to do it your way when you show you're willing to do it her way, too. With a new woman, go gently. If she gives clear signals that hot talk makes her quiver in delight, unleash your tongue. Otherwise, turn up the heat gradually, and remember that for many women, learning how to talk nasty is learning a foreign language.

Introducing Sex Toys To Your Relationship
by Tamar Love

I didn't try using a sex toy until I was 28. Although I've always been open-minded, fairly sexual and comfortable with my body, I'd never gotten around to actually buying one, for a lot of stupid reasons. I was embarrassed; the only time I'd been to sex shops was with other girlfriends and there was no way I was going to buy a vibrator in front of someone I knew. None of my friends had ever mentioned masturbation, which was the only reason I could think of to try a sex toy, so I certainly wasn't comfortable talking about it with them. Only sluts used sex toys, right? Or girls whose boyfriends just weren't doing it for them? Besides, how would I even know what to buy? Even though I kind of wanted one, my laziness, fears and indecision kept me vibrator-free.

Then I met Sam. Just a regular guy from Oakland, Sam was confused by the fact that I didn't have a vibrator. "What do you use to masturbate?" he asked, flooring me with his casual use of that naughty word. I mumbled something about letting my fingers do the walking, and then changed the subject. On our next date, he showed up with a pretty little gift for me: my very first vibrator. It wasn't fancy - just a plain silver rocket vibe - but it was all mine. I couldn't wait to use it and see what it would feel like. As it turned out, I didn't have to wait at all. Sam and I used it together that very night. Now, I'm a convert with a whole treasure box of different sex toys. Sure, I use them when I masturbate (I can even use the word now!), but Sam and I use them together on a regular basis. Sex toys spice up our love life and add a little adventure to the bedroom. After all, it's been almost two years ... we wouldn't want to get bored!

Does the first part of this story sound familiar? I know so many people who have been dying to try sex toys, but have been too embarrassed to do anything about it. I've also heard from lots of people who already enjoy sex toys and would like to use them with their partners, but have been too reluctant to bring their toys to the bedroom for fear of offending their loved ones. And I'm sure there are others out there who have tried to share a favorite toy with a partner, but were unprepared for the negative reactions they may have received. Whatever the case, it is possible to introduce sex toys into your relationship. In fact, we recommend it ... for three reasons:

1. Sex Toys Feel Good.There's no disputing that orgasms feel good. Sex toys help you have better, stronger, longer orgasms, which is always a good thing.

2. Sex Toys are Fun. Most couples get bored with their sex lives at some point in their relationships. Sex toys add a bit of zest to the relationship and keep things from getting dull. Using a sex toy together can bring you closer; sharing new experiences together can be very intimate.

3. Sex Toys Make Sex Better. Many women have difficulty achieving orgasms unless they receive clitoral stimulation, which can be difficult to manage during intercourse. Also, many men have trouble sustaining their erections as long as they would like. Sex toys can help in both of those situations. They can also enhance a perfectly good lovemaking session, adding just enough "oomph" to turn a great experience into an outstanding one.

While we think those arguments are compelling enough to convince most people, the reality is probably quite different. As much as we'd all like to think of ourselves as liberal, open-minded and adventurous people, everyone can be a little squeamish about new things. Your partner might need some convincing. While we hope Sam's approach - bring it home and plunk it down - works as well for your partner as it did for me, it's best to discuss your partner's feelings about sex toys before springing anything new on them.

Lies, myths and misconceptions about sex toys abound. Needless to say, most of them aren't true. However, you should always treat your lover's concerns seriously - especially when it comes to sex. Be prepared to deal with just about anything, including feelings of inadequacy, emotional discomfort and ignorance. You probably won't know your lover's sex toy reservations until you talk to him or her, but you can anticipate a few responses to some common attitudes about sex toys.

Sex toys are for perverts, weirdoes, sluts or freaks.
All kinds of people use sex toys, including people most would consider perfectly normal. Yes, perverts, weirdoes, sluts and freaks use sex toys, but so do doctors, lawyers, housewives, teachers, accountants, bus drivers, secretaries ... and just about anyone else you can think of. Using a sex toy doesn't make you "weird." It just makes you have an orgasm! If your partner has this fear, suggest that he or she talk to his or her friends about it, or do some Internet research on the subject. Your lover might be surprised by how common sex toy usage can be.

Sex toys are just for masturbation.
While sex toys are commonly used for solo sex, many couples enjoy using sex toys together, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your relationship - quite the opposite. Usually the kinds of people who are comfortable trying new things together are open-minded, intimate, comfortable and trusting. Using a sex toy together is a good way to reaffirm the strength of your relationship. If your lover has this concern, try giving him or her a book on using sex toys to add excitement to your partnership. There's lots of them!

Your partner will feel inadequate if you start using a sex toy.
Many people express concern that bringing a sex toy into their relationship will hurt their partner's feelings. It's understandable: a huge, vibrating penis that brings you to climax every time? Who wouldn't be jealous? Seriously, a sex toy can give you an orgasm, but it can't cuddle with you afterwards. Sex toys will never replace live humans. If your lover has this fear, be sensitive and stroke his or her ego a little bit. As with most relationship issues, good communication can go a long way to solving the problem.

Using sex toys can be physically dangerous.
Absolutely untrue! In fact, sex toys can have very positive effects on your sexual health. For example, menopausal women can use dildos to maintain vaginal tone, staving off incontinence and other sexual health issues. Many doctors and therapists recommend sex toys to women who have trouble reaching orgasm. And finally, a healthy relationship with your body is beneficial to your overall health. Using sex toys heightens your awareness of your body and its functions, making you more alert to abnormalities such as bumps, lumps or abrasions. If your partner is worried about physical dangers, sit down and surf the Net together. Any sexual or general health site can assuage his or her fears.

If you use sex toys too much, you won't have an orgasm with your partner.
We hear that one all the time! Yes, the earthshaking orgasms produced by a vibrator can be psychologically addictive, but they don't take the place of a real person. Think about it: most people have been using their hands to masturbate since they were young, yet they usually prefer partner sex to solo sex, don't they? If your partner is afraid you'll replace him or her with your battery-powered pal, promise him or her that you'll keep your sex life varied: try different positions, new toys, role playing and fantasy, both in partner sex and solo sex. Boredom and repetition often cause bed death.

If your relationship is solid, there's no reason why you should need a sex toy.
As we've already suggested, using a sex toy with your lover can actually strengthen your relationship. You need to have a certain amount of closeness to share this intimate new experience together. Using a sex toy can be a good affirmation of that closeness. If your lover doesn't think you need a sex toy to brighten up your sex life, assure him or her that you don't need a sex toy either, you'd just like to try one. Again, your local bookstore has many books on sexual intimacy. Your lover might be persuaded by one.

Buying sex toys can be really embarrassing.
We agree, which is one of the reasons we've created this nifty, anonymous place to buy them! Seriously, if you aren't comfortable going to a sex shop and picking out a dildo, you have lots of other options. You and your partner can order from a catalog or a website ... may we suggest www.partiesbypaula.weebly.com?

If you've addressed each of these misconceptions with your partner and he or she is still apprehensive about using a sex toy with you, take it slow, be patient and think creatively. Don't press the issue or you might get an incontrovertible "no"! Flatter your partner, show him or her how much you enjoy his or her body, and make the most of your sexual time together. It's possible he or she isn't ready for that level of intimacy yet, but with time and effort, your lover might change his or her mind. Let your partner watch you masturbate with a sex toy. It may cause some giggles at first, but it might also break the ice and relieve your embarrassed partner of any squeamish thoughts about sex toys.

You might also try buying a book or watching a video together - your partner might be embarrassed to admit he or she doesn't know how sex toys work; "instructional" materials can often alleviate your partners functional concerns. We also recommend attending or hosting a sex toy party with your partner. For a nominal fee, many stores will send representatives to your party site to demonstrate and explain a selection of toys for you and your guests ... think Tupperware party with a different kind of plastic product. These parties can be a fun, painless way to introduce sex toys into your life - especially if there's alcohol involved!

Once you are able to bring the toy into the relationship, remember a few basic commonsense tips.

* Start slow. Save the double dong or strap-on dildo for future encounters. Try a nice, simple rocket vibrator. Once your sweetie is used to the vibe, you can trade up.
* Be gentle. Your partner may like it on the rough side, but hold back a little the first few times you play with toys. There's plenty of time to accelerate!
* Talk to your partner. He or she may have agreed to use the toy, but that doesn't mean your lover is 100% comfortable with the idea. Talk your way through the experience. Ask your partner if what you are doing together feels good. If it doesn't, try something else.
* Use lubrication. Sex toys need lots of lube to slip and slide the way they should. The last thing your girlfriend needs to worry about is whether she's wet enough to enjoy herself. Similarly, you don't want to risk injury to male or female partners by inserting something into a dry orifice. Keep a bottle of lube handy and use it.
* Be flexible. The toy you've selected might turn out to be totally wrong for your sexual personalities. That's okay. Put it aside and try something different.
* Be patient. Your partner may agree to play with the toy, and then change his or her mind midway through the experience. That's his or her prerogative. Be patient and try again another time. It might take awhile, but it will be worth the wait.

The important thing to remember is that your relationship is a partnership, which implies that both of you are in this together. You make the decision together; you select the toy together. If your lover feels as though he or she can trust you, things will go much better for you and your toy. Sharing the experience goes a long way to promoting that trust.